Why I always defend Christians

Christians are by all empirical evidence the most persecuted faith on earth in the last half century.

Genocide against Christians is taking place in the Middle East, Africa, South Asia.

In many countries where Christians are still a majority they are subject to hatred, ridicule and impediments to practice their religion. They are singled out in university classes and in vile election rhetoric.

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This pandemic has been used as an excuse to repress Christian worship while allowing many other activities that are not even constitutionally protected.

When you see our leaders and our judges stay silent in the face of this persecution, it is silent consent to your persecution.

I am Jewish. This is how it always starts. The Christians are our only line of defense against annihilation. Jesus and his family are part of my extended family.

Long before Jewish persecution in Europe was a Millenia of persecution and hatred of Christians.

In Poland during the Holocaust, tens of thousands of Poles risked their lives to protect Jews. More are honored at Yad Vashem than those of any other nationality.

There will always be some crisis. Always some emergency. It is when these challenges arise that our freedoms are most important.

Watch your politicians’ responses, if any, after Mayor Bill DeBlasio’s comments today singling out the Jews and threatening police roundups.

They were also silent as Christian preachers were arrested or fined in Kansas and Louisiana and many other places. Their silence is consent. Their silence is agreement.

I’m awake now.

Peace be the Botendaddy


In Defense of Poland: a Jewish Perspective

1. The King of Poland welcomed the Jews in the 14th Century.

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2. For almost 500 years Poland was a safe haven where Jews thrived.

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3. The destruction of the Polish-Livonian Commonwealth and the 1793 partition was a disaster for Eastern Europe.

4. Poland was divided again between the Nazis and the Bolsheviks in a 1939 invasion.

5. The Soviets murdered the Polish Intelligentsia in the East and the Nazis murdered everyone in the West.

6. Every single Nazi-occupied country had collaborators.

7. Every single Nazi-occupied country had people who tried to save Jews, Gypsies and other undesirables. Many died for principle. Many of them were in Poland. Vad Yashem Righteous Gentiles 6,992 – more than any other country in the world. (The US was still having wackos with Nazi Party Rallies as late as 1941. The Soviet Union was in the von Ribbentrop pact until 1941 so no room to talk…)

8. The Nazis terrorized populations into submission. Resistance was certain death. And many Poles resisted. You can talk brave, but when the Einsatzgruppen came for you, they killed you and your entire family. If you won’t risk that, then shut up.

9. Concentration camps inside Poland were established by the Nazis, not by the Poles. This is not open to dispute.

10. Many Poles hid out Jewish children for years.

11. If it’s not OK to blame an entire population for the sins of a few, why is it OK to blame all Poles for the actions of a few?

12. Poland went through hell. 1793-1918 Partition and endless wars. 1939-1945 invasion and genocide Katyn, Warsaw… 1945-1991 Soviet Occupation, ethnic cleansing and partition. Enough said.

13. Poland in 1939 was the first country to stand up to Nazi invasion. Poland had several uprisings including the Warsaw ghetto and the resistance of 1944.

14. Poland stood up to Communist oppression with Solidarnosc in 1981.

15. Pope John Paul was a voice for peace and freedom that led to the fall of the iron curtain.

16. There’s nothing wrong with Poland 🇵🇱.

17. To my fellow Jews who have a bone to pick with Poland: shut up 🤐. You’re wrong.

Pokój będzie Botendaddy




The Battle for the Equal Rights Amendment, North Carolina, 1978

Hello dearest viewers, I am the Botendaddy. Welcome to our studio at 37th and Lexington, New York, New York.

I recognize that some of my readers are bleary-eyed weepy vegan ultra-liberals and some of my readers are stone-headed Extrême-droite bedrock conservatives. I am a nihilist, so I don’t care about your political opinion.

With the ERA being revived again, there are many long-forgotten stories about little political battles in far-flung little places across America.

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This is one of those stories, pulled from dusty long-lost paper archive boxes. It is the story of one woman’s honest quest to make life better for people like her.

It was a time when politics was clean and bitter enemies treated each other with respect and dignity despite their differences. Maybe there is a lesson in courtesy for today’s political discourse.

Who she was is not important now, but gains in human rights are built on the backs of many unknown people who gave their best efforts to fight for their fellow citizens, even if the spirit of the times destined their works to failure. Sometimes, you win the battle but lose the war.  This is one of those stories.

Some of the characters names are changed to protect the innocent and the guilty. Some of the good guys were self-serving and placed their own careers and self-interest above the cause. They feared the help of sincere people who might threaten their own glory. Would these influential people let the cause fail for their own advancement? Of course they would! Also,  some of the bad guys were actually very decent people who held sincere beliefs.

I hope I can relate the story well enough in tribute to this woman. I have provided dramatic license to make the story more exciting.

The landscape was different, the names were different, but the issues were the same. I knew a Sociologist who believed that times change but people are essential the same in every generation.

Dear Diary: October 31, 1974 Otsego Lake Hospital 🏥 Cooperstown, New York. Perseus, my beloved husband is dead. I fear for the future.

Letter from Mega Credit Card Company: November 30, 1975 – Dear Beatrice, we are sorry for the loss of your husband, Perseus, but under company policy, we must cancel the joint credit card as we cannot extend credit to the wife of a primary card-holder on her credit alone.

Letter from Mega Auto Insurance Company of the Mohawk Valley: November 30, 1975 – Dear Beatrice, We are sorry for your loss, but due to company policy, we are required to cancel your insurance policy as we cannot provide auto insurance on your credit alone.

Letter from Mega University, December 15, 1975 – Dear Beatrice, although you earned your Masters Degree here and your late husband was a full Professor at our university, we usually don’t consider women of your age for our PhD program without a substantial body of significant research.

Letter from the Veteran’s Administration, December 20, 1975. Dear Beatrice, we appreciate your husband’s sacrifice in World War II and Korea. However you must resubmit your application for VA death benefits for a seventh time in triplicate due to a missing attestation in VA Form 36013-13, Page 23, Line 14 stroke 7-a.

Letter from Wealthy Father of Perseus December 26, 1975 – Dear Beatrice I know I promised to pay for the funeral and I know I gave my only son a deathbed promise to help take care of his children, my new wife, Zecky, is concerned that the money may be dissipated inappropriately, I hope you understand. Love, Dad

Dear Diary July 1, 1975: I have decided that my only option is to go live with my Uncle Jumonville in Charlotte, North Carolina. My children agree that this is the best option.



The Stone that the Builder Refused Shall become the Cornerstone: Psalm 118 v. 22

“The stone which the builders refused is become the head stone of the corner.”

Bob Marley’s Song: ‘Cornerstone’ probably puts it best and is worth a listen.

We adopted theBoten-daughter at 13 months.

She’s never really said too much about it except when she got mad.

In quiet times, when she wonders about her place in the world, I tell her that she is the stone that the builder refused and that this stone becomes the cornerstone in the eyes of God.

No good person is a throwaway from birth. You aren’t what was done to you. You aren’t the sum of why you were cast away. You are beautiful in God’s eyes.


I’m not going to Write about Tree of Life for a While

This site was always about the following things:

1. Poorly-written stories

2. Running 🏃

3. Workouts 🏋️‍♀️

4. The adventures of the Writer’s Workshop

5. Posts based loosely on the humor of S. J. Perelman

6. Impressions on my service in Iraq 🇮🇶 with the 1st Cavalry Division 🐴

7. Stories and posts about my home state of New York mostly Cooperstown and the City

8. Stories and posts about my adopted home of Pittsburgh

9. Literary and Film critique

10. The Existential Nihilist Philosophy of Häär Doktor Doktor 👨‍⚕️ Pareczenethy

It wasn’t supposed to be sad. It was supposed to be funny and light-hearted and occasionally crude and silly.

I don’t have anything to offer anymore on Tree of Life. We were just like anywhere else. We were just like your Synagogue 🕍 Church ⛪ mosque 🕌 Temple…. Always complaining about nothing. Showing up late. Making fun of other Synagogues. Showing up really late. Internecine conflict. Showing up incredibly late. Making fun of the people Who were sitting around us during the high holy days. Cutting up with my daughter when we were supposed to be praying. Getting yelled at because my daughter never paid attention in Hebrew school. Getting her to Hebrew school late. Getting dirty looks from other congregants for cutting up during services. Reading the announcements instead of the prayer books. Getting yelled at by the rabbi for not showing up or showing up ridiculously late. Hoping the appeals for fundraising would stop. Showing up spectacularly late.

Peace be the Botendaddy

I was back at Tree of Life for the first time since the Massacre

It was early evening, in the dark and in the rain. Fall is here. Today, Halloween 🎃 would have been my mother’s birthday. She had once been with Dor Hadash Congregation which was also hit last Saturday. She had strong opinions about the world. Despite all the evil she knew that there was also good.

I thanked the police and I left a stone for a couple of the dead.

I stood with mourners in the rain, Robert Merton, the monk, once said that there was a shred of divinity in all faiths, and yes they were all there together in the relentless light rain, Christian, Jewish, Taoist, Buddhist… I don’t know. All in different levels of pain. All feeling wounded themselves.

I mostly just stared at the building. I scanned it for scars. How this place had been hurt, almost like a living creature that was badly wounded. It was like watching a friend who had been grievously injured and you didn’t know if they would recover or not.

I thought of my daughter in the purple chapel last year at her Bat Mitzvah, so beautiful.

It was absolutely unbearable agony to stand there. I thought it the worst vanity to feel my own pain, but for the first time I had to.

I don’t care about the person who did this. Does it matter who does such a thing? He could live or die and I don’t care.

Does it matter the race or religion of those slaughtered? Is it any less or more when it happens to anyone else? Does God care more or less depending on who is the victim? I don’t think so. I think he mourns for all his children equally.

Then I walked away in the rain and I saw all the children trick or treating in sight of the temple. And I realized that despite such evil in the world, there is also good.

Love to all of my readers.

Peace be the Botendaddy



R.I.P. Mike Pintek: The Legend of Three Mile Island

Note: March 28, 1979 was the Three Mile Island Disaster. I will post this story every year on this date.

I believe that

no matter how prepared you are,

no matter how talented you are,

no matter how determined you are,

no matter how smart you are,

no matter how attractive you are,

you still need “The Big Luck” to make your mark in the world.

“Time and chance happeneth to them all” –Eccslesiastes

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Mike Pintek died today, September 12, 2018.

Who was he? You may well ask.

On March, 28, 1979, he was a reporter for a Harrisburg, Pennsylvania area news station. He went on to have a career in radio broadcasting.

At any rate, let me set the stage for you:

According to Geologists, thanks to what is know as the Allegheny Orogeny, for some 325 million years, the Susquehanna river, originating at Lake Otsego in Cooperstown, New York wound its way through the mountains past the City of Harrisburg. And many years later, upon its Western Shore in Middletown, Pennsylvania, rose quietly the brand-new Triple Stacks of the Three Mile Island Nuclear Power Plant.

March 1979: The nation is spinning slowly out of control. The American Industrial heartland is collapsing under the weight of bleary-eyed weepy environmentalist EPA regulations, shrieking mobster Bolshevik Union demands, whiny 😫  OSHA regulations and fierce competition from Japan 🇯🇵 .

Jimmy Carter, our beleaguered President is blaming Americans for everything. Gas prices are skyrocketing, high inflation, staggering unemployment.

Hope was dead across America. For the first time since the Revolution, we were heading downhill instead of up. Opportunities were limited and the skies were always gray. The disenfranchised youth of the Jones generation crashed on the shoals of the boomers and the greatest generation.

It was impossible, in this era, to stand out or be famous or be important. There was no internet, no cellphones, not much cable 📺 tv. There were newspapers and radio 📻 and tv 📺 news.

And then something happened at the nuclear Power Plant. And a young reporter named Mike Pintek made a simple phone call to Three Mile Island and he was patched through to the Control Room by mistake…. by mistake….

”I can’t talk right now! There’s a problem!”

Said a voice on the other end. And so it began.

And Mike Pintek had his ‘Hindenburg Disaster’ broadcasting moment: ‘Oh the Humanity!’ That one great lucky break of pure circumstance. And then, he was famous forever. And he stood out. And he made a name for himself. And he was etched forever into the book of American History.

We could all live vicariously through Mike Pintek. What if we too got the big break… The Big Luck… in the military, at work, at school, in a sport, in the arts 🎭?

Mike allowed us believe that if we could just get into the game and we followed the path and worked hard and did what we could to succeed, that maybe, just maybe, our one big moment was waiting for us just over the hill.

RIP Mike


Defender of the Faith: R.I.P. Philip Roth

’Defender of the Faith’ is a 1962 story by Philip Roth about a Jewish Sergeant, Marx, who is a combat Veteran just back from the war in Europe and his manipulative Jewish draftee Grossbart.

Without going into the story in depth, the apocryphal fable told about Jewish soldiers in the U.S. Army at the tail end of  WWII, is one that sadly, I’ve seen before.

My distant family, three of them, the first born in America, all joined the Army to fight in the Spanish-American War. Somewhere a faded sepia-toned photograph ala Butch Cassidy may show them in their super-slick SAW uniforms with their slouch hats, slung pack and Krag rifle. Man, they looked muy macho.

Long story short, our family tradition has literally extended to every war from 1898 to this day. So the topic is very sensitive to me.

American Jews, post-Korean War, rightly or wrongly, had a reputation as draft dodgers. They served in solid numbers through the Korean War, but Vietnam and the college deferment was a huge blot on our reputation as Americans.

Even worse, by the epoch of the War on Terror (I served until 2011) the percentage of Jews in the Army had fallen to a level so minuscule that it equaled the number of Muslims. 3,400 souls in the entire Army. I was stunned. A higher percentage actually served in Theatre in Vietnam. It’s a statistical fact.

I don’t think there were more than five Jews in my  Brigade in Iraq.  Out of 3,500 soldiers… Unfathomable… Then, when I got back, only two Jews in my Battalion… me included. WTF?

Who pulled the charred remains of our brethren out of the ovens in 1945? The same U.S. Army. The same U.S. Army that wasn’t good enough for us by 1965?

When I first joined, early in my long unillustrious career, we had Passover services at Ft. Benning where 44 Jews showed up. 44! That’s a lot for anywhere.

I remember a Jewish recruit whining to me about how his sergeant treated him because he couldn’t do enough pushups. He wanted me, a Jewish Lieutenant to stand up for him. I refused and I made him do more pushups until his spindly arms fell off. I was furious. He was an embarrassment to my people.

Maybe Roth’s Sergeant Marx and I were more like the vicious Sergeant Waters from ‘A Soldiers’s Story’ who thought that by brutalizing the weak links he would bring up the image of black Soldiers in the Army.

This was exactly the story of Defender of the Faith. Grossbart plays on Marx’ emotions as Marx just returned from the front: 1945 Germany. Grossbart weasels his way out of orders to the Pacific. Grossbart whines for special privileges on account of being Jewish, then takes advantage when he gets them. Like me, Marx was furious and embarrassed for his people.

Marx gets Grossbart’s orders changed back to the Pacific. He does it not to defend Grossbart whom he views as a bad example, but to defend the reputation of American Jews in the Army.

I originally hated Roth. I thought he was ‘too Jewish’ and he made our people look like self-indulgent perverts. Sure, the Psychiatrist’s couch in Portnoy may be a veiled reference to Kafka’s cockroach, but Roth’s story is much harder-edged than Neil Simon’s rose-colored Biloxi Blues, where the snarky Jewish wise-ass brats put one over on the over-matched, shell-shocked combat Veteran Sergeant Toomey.

Where was Toomey’s thanks for saving those two brat’s people? Simon never gets the point, does he? Contrast Wouk’s Caine Mutiny where the mutineers’ Jewish Navy JAG lawyer, Lieutenant Barney Greenwald, has sympathy for Queeg, because Queeg stood up to serve long before many others did and help keep Greenwald’s mother from being made into ‘soap’.

In Roth’s ‘Defender’, the wise-ass Jewish brat doesn’t get away with it. Marx knows what the stakes are: he saw it in the liberated concentration camps and he knows who liberated them.

Roth, with an unblinking gaze, speaks an ugly but unsaid universal truth about the wise-ass Jewish kid who thinks he’s too special and too smart for the Army. Yes, I’ve seen them first hand trying to game the system more than once: don’t any of my soul brothers dare tell me that I haven’t seen it.

Roth was excoriated by the Jewish community for telling this story and he stood his ground. This is who we are, warts and all, Roth instructs us. This story is a triumph of truth over self-deceit.

Some of us, in the end are Sergeant Marx, the patriot, and some of us are Grossbart, the shirker, who makes a mockery of his own faith.

Call me what you will, but given my family history: from The Spanish-American War through Iraq, we jealousy guarded the reputation of the Jewish soldier in the U.S. Army until apparently there was no-one left to care.

RIP Philip Roth

Peace be the Botendaddy

The Professors

She was 50.

She was a beautiful sophisticated Southern Belle. Classic American girl from  North Carolina. Platinum blonde hair, perfect features, 40’s pinup figure, piercing pale blue eyes.

She married her high school sweetheart. He was a young Captain in the U.S. Army. He died in a shitty muddy shell hole at Anzio Beach.

She most missed the ‘feel’ of him. The comfort of his presence. When he died, she lost her future.

She never dated again. She never had relations again. It was too late with every year that passed by.

She went back to school, took her time. In the late 1950’s, she was studying for her PhD. She became friends with another PhD student about six years her Junior. Unfortunately he was engaged to another young lady, a Masters student. The three of them were inseparable until he graduated.

She never moved in on him, but she never let go of him either. She was adjunct faculty at a negro college in South Carolina through much of the 60’s.

In 1968, he became chairman of his department at a University in Upstate New York. He contacted her, then hired her to be a professor.


He lived in a town fifty miles away, so he spent four nights a week in the college town and three nights a week at home.

He was tall, lean, quiet, sophisticated. He reminded her of her husband. Not as dashing, not as handsome, but cool, like a 1950’s detective from a film noir movie, the thin guy in the raincoat and hat, standing under a streetlight in the mist. He was quiet and mysterious.

She loved him. She had always loved him. For eight years, though, he was put completely out of her mind.

They would have dinner together sometimes in the town, sometimes at her little house, decorated with artifacts from her overseas travel and the aromas of European soap.

Sometimes, they would have coffee in the shop across the street from the college. They would chat and she would nod when he spoke. He would listen to her in rapt attention.

Often they would go for walks across campus and even all the way home, as it wasn’t that far. Now and then they would catch a movie. He didn’t speak too much but he was fascinating, a Renaissance Man. A WWII and Korean War Vet. He was a study in black and white.

One night, they had a drink together at her place, about a month after his wife died from a botched operation. He was stoic.

They looked at each other for a moment across the little coffee table between the ornate Moroccan chairs. Just a moment. A little moment, and he took her.

She gave herself to him utterly.

She gave him every part of herself as deeply as possible.

She gave him her soul and he devoured every piece of her.

Then she saw the future again, and it was good.

Abandoned Places: Chapter Four – Apocalypse Wheeling

Apocalypse Day Four:

West Virginia, Suburb of Wheeling 11:30 AM

Wheeling, West Virginia

For three days I rode West on an old Mountain bike, occasionally stopping to walk amidst a bewildering array of destroyed buildings, stores and houses without finding anyone, alive or dead.

I saw no moving cars, no planes, no signs of life. At night, one by one it seemed that the power went out to the various towns and cities.

Some buildings may have had generators and kept some light and power. I would walk in and smash vending machines. I could still get iced coffee from the machines in the zombie-power buildings.

I would walk amongst the cubicles and computers, now devoid of internet like an ant colony without a leader. Photos of families and vacations, posters on team building for non-existent teams. Boshavel industries. No clue what they produced.

I slept indoors in these abandoned office buildings to avoid returning homeowners, if any. I would lock the door of some Office so no-one could find me or sneak up on me.

My primary mission was, according to Defense Protocol 36, which I had only followed once before in my 30 year military career, back on September 11th, was as follows:

’In the event of a national emergency, all military personnel, not on the official retirement list shall report to the nearest military facility, collect arriving military personnel and organize to provide for the national defense in accordance with the last official issued orders of the chain of command.’

And now here I was, but alone. After  three days, the beleaguered mountain bike finally just fell apart.

Some of the roads were unexpectedly intact. It was warm and dry, almost summer, so I was able to move about and find some supplies. But now, I was on foot. What would you do in my situation?

I didn’t have a gun, but I had my old Army Knives, one being an old Marine 4-1/2 inch K-Bar and the other a 7 inch Canadian Army knife, gifts from my wife and brother respectively, that I had carried overseas in two different wars.

I carried my green army bug-out bag from my last tour in Iraq. I wore my old Army combat fatigues. I suppose that is your standard post-apocalyptic scenario, but the uniform gave me some legitimacy.

I crossed into West Virginia on foot. I knew Wheeling from Running 10k’s there. Wheeling was a quaint city being re-imagined. Myriad bridges, fascinating buildings, quaint little shops. But it was like walking on an empty movie set.

Wheeling was white stone and red bricks. The trees smelled richly of spring.

I walked back around the empty city and up the mountain by the Main Street. I found myself walking in some nice suburban neighborhood where an access road ran above the four-lane collector road separated by a drainage ditch or creek of some sort.

The creek was clear and clean. A slight breeze wafted along the access road. I was conscious of walking on the dirt path next to the roadway. It was soft on my feet.

I stayed along the ridgeline in defilade. That means that I was hiding along the wood line as I walked. My pack was heavy with food and water. I could smell flowers and foliage. I could hear insects buzzing. The forest was a vivid green on my right, but the road was grey and dull on my left. I saw a Post Office down below, symbol of the Federal Government.

I followed my old Army instinct, which is both stupid and cliché, but two concepts that always worked out well for me.

The key to success in any survival situation is to spot an adversary before they spot you. So, I played it low key.

I had a cool radio, a portable metallic-red soft plastic AM-FM-SW and weather box which worked by hand crank. Hence, no batteries needed. A gift from my mom. A silly gift at the time for my age, but now a lifesaver. The problem was, other than a repeating weather and emergency message from some unattended satellite, I got no new information.

I lacked some important skills. I did not know how to kill and dress a game animal or how to prepare a fish. I barely knew how to make fire. I was still on the lookout for a non-looted store.

The access road was pebbled concrete, maybe an anachronism, but no weeds grew in the cracks, so I assumed it was still in use.

My thoughts were suddenly broken almost like an electric shock down my spine. I heard a rhythmic thump of a car going over the connecting points of a road slab from behind.

I stepped back into the woods before the car crested the horizon. The car stopped almost next to me, because the small overpass that connected the ends of the road was gone.

There was no trace of roadway in the creek below. Maybe it really was an abandoned road.

I examined the car. It was a 4×4 SUV. The passenger saw me as I was kneeling in the woods.

The driver was a woman of about 40, the passenger a girl of about 15. Her window was open. I walked up to the passenger door.

”Are you with The Army?” The passenger  asked.

”What’s left of it.” I said quietly. It was true: U.S. Army Retired Reserve. I wasn’t 60 yet, and hadn’t started to draw the pension that I would now never get, so theoretically I was at the last lowest level of legitimate connection to the Army.

“You don’t have a gun.” Said the mother.

”Yeah, well, I don’t need a gun, I’m a master of Kung Fu.” I said dryly.

They both laughed.

”Thank god we found you. We haven’t seen a soul for days. You wouldn’t hurt us would you?”

Said the girl with a nervous look on her face. She was pretty with brown hair and green eyes. I also had brown hair and green eyes, so maybe she was a long lost ninth cousin.

”What an odd question, Miss. If I were going to hurt you, I would say no. If I wasn’t going to hurt you I would say no. So no.”

I had a wife and a daughter about her age. I don’t know what happened to them so I can’t think about it. I had to focus on the now. These women were very vulnerable in this situation and they needed my help.

“Our key to survival, as I’ve seen from the Wars, is people working together. How can I help?”

I advised.

They pulled the car over into the woods. They got out and we stood around the car surveying the situation.

”What are you trying to do? Where are you going?”

I asked as I sat in my mini Army folding chair. I feared the worst: that in the end, I wouldn’t be able to help them.

”We have guns, but we don’t know how to use them. They were my grand-dad’s. I grabbed his guns and ammo boxes.”

Said Andrea.

”May I see what you have? I may be able to teach you how to use them or maybe you could lend me one of the guns while we are working together.”

She opened the back of the massive SUV. I examined the weapons. A pistol and a rifle.

”We have these. Are they any good?”

Said Andrea hopefully.

There was a Springfield rifle with a clip. I picked up the gun. I tested the bolt. It was clean and oiled. I put in a clip. I put the cleaning kit and the remaining clips into my pack. I slung  the rifle over my shoulder.

”These are very good, may I have the rifle for now?”

I inquired.

”Yes, I don’t know how to use it.”

Said Andrea.

I thought about my pack. I had binocs and a compass. I had road maps. Even an old US travel map book. I even had several folding knives and multi-tools.

My number one skill as an Army combat officer was designing missions on the fly. I only needed a master vision and I could create missions in my own. I had been a combat trainer and liaison officer. Both of which actually required independent critical thinking skills. No-one planned for you, you had to do it all yourself.

“My name is William Lewis Peterson, Lieutenant Colonel, US Army Retired Reserves. People call me ‘Whelp’.”

”My name is Andrea (pronounced On-dray-uh) and my daughter is Bethany. We have been on the road for a week. My dad lives East of here somewhere in Pennsylvania, but I haven’t seen him in a while, long story, but he’s the only one we have left. He contacted us the day before this started and he asked us to try to get to him. He has a place in the state game lands.”

”Hi Andrea, hi Bethany.”

I drank from my canteen.

“I was a family man, not just an Army guy. Think about it. First instincts are best. You didn’t fear me right off the bat. I’m a huge guy in an Army Uniform and you were not afraid of me, so I’m not someone for you to fear. By the same token, you seem like nice people. Let’s sort things out.”

They both looked at each other and nodded in unison.

”Where does your dad live, Andrea?”

I asked.

”On the ridge near Juniata in a town on Sideling Hill.”

I calculated the distance and terrain in my mind’s eye.

”Wow. That’s a way and you’re headed West not East. So wow. It’s Four and a half hours by car  on a bright sunny weekday on the highways. In this environment? Also the vehicle.  It’s easy for an enemy to spot, but it provides shelter and transportation. But gasoline? Without working city power, gas pumps will not operate, so it’s siphoning at best or boosting cars with full tanks. Bethany, what can you tell me about your grandfather?”

I wondered.

“Grandpa is a cool guy. I’ve met him a few times. He’s about your age. He’s a scientist of some kind. He worked at a government laboratory in Maryland. He’s very smart.”

Answered Bethany. She looked scared and sad. I felt bad for her. On the road with Mom, lost, displaced from her life.

A light wind swept through the woods. I looked up for a minute. I could see birds flying in the distance.

It was daunting, but we were alive. I wanted to reassure them that anything was possible. Never let people lose hope. The problem was not knowing what happened and what was out there.

Andrea spoke up again. She was very pretty. Blonde green-eyed, dressed in a green t-shirt and jeans.

“We kept getting turned around as the roads are out. What do we do now?”

I shook my canteen.

“Well, I suppose we risk keeping the vehicle. On foot, it’s a serious haul.”

I thought about saying we. But for now it was ‘we’.

“I see at the crossroad up ahead what looks like a business district, but if there are enemies, zombies or free-roaming criminals it will be dangerous. The upside is that we could stockpile medicals, batteries, flashlights food, water and supplies from abandoned stores.”

I made notes in my little green cloth-bound Army notebook. It was weird. I thought that after I retired from the Army I would  never use it again. It picked right up from the last entry: January 10, 2009 Qalat Salih, Iraq. Now I knew how the Iraqis felt. How the Bosnians felt. To them we were the zombie apocalypse back then. Like the bewildered citizens of those lands, we had no plan other than to survive.

Mission 1: Reconnoiter Surburban Business District for Supplies

I wanted to let the girls know that they had no obligation to follow me.

“I will present you with my ideas, and you have the right to go along or not.”

I was looking back and forth at each of them. I sensed  that I was staring at Andrea. Bethany looked at me nervously.

”You’re very sure of yourself. Do you know even know what you are doing?”

Bethany said, standing up protectively with her hands on her hips.

”I’ve survived two different wars in two different places and I grew up in one of the most violent neighborhoods of New York City in the City’s most violent era, so my instincts are good. That I’m here right now means I survived whatever happened. Survival has its own cachet.”

I sensed that it was getting warm out, so I handed each of them a six-ounce water bottle.

”Are you a zombie?”

Bethany asked.

”There’s no such thing. We have some enemy. It could be invasion, revolution, catastrophic environmental event, sunspots, radiation, disease, nuclear war. I don’t know. I get a weather report, so someone has power. There is an emergency warning every hour in the hour, but they don’t say what. Phones are dead, AM and FM are dead, but I forgot to listen to shortwave. My first mistake.”

“So what do we do now?”

Asked Andrea.

“Rule number one when chaos strikes, is – if you are safe where you are, stay where you are. In other words, if we are even having this conversation, we are by definition safe, but time is our enemy. We will need water, fuel, food, medicine, hygiene supplies, cleaning supplies, Ammunition. We don’t have a doctor or dentist so we are at risk. If we find a medical person they will join us voluntarily or not.”

I smiled when I said that, so they would be less afraid of me. I’m not sure that it worked. How would you react?

”OK, what do we do now, Army man?”

Asked Andrea. She had a slight look of disgust whenever she looked at me. I wasn’t the guy who played the hero in the movie, I suppose.

”We leave the vehicles here, locked. The pistol comes with us. Water comes with us. We check out the business district. If the district is empty, come back to the vehicle and load it with supplies. We also stockpile supplies as we go, in case we need to fall back somewhere. How much gas do you have?”

I asked.

”Theee quarters full? We haven’t been on the road long.”

Andrea responded. She looked down to the ground for a minute, then she looked up and inhaled like she was summoning her courage.

I stood up.

”I’m going to show you how to operate each weapon, how to load it, how to be safe in case something happens to me.”

I stated.

We spent a few minutes in the woods going over the weapons. I had Andrea lock the car.

We climbed down a path on the bank of the creek and we went up the other side.

It was only a quarter mile to the business district. It was utterly deserted. Or so we thought.

We walked through a pharmacy, and a small grocery store. There was a sight smell of rotting food.

There was no gun store. There was a small general store with hardware and a service station.

When we were in the service station I saw a young man walking up the street. He was an intelligent-looking young man in a button down shirt and jeans.

”Wait here.”

The girls knelt down.


The boy was startled when he saw the gun and he held his hands up. He was tall, about 16. He also had green eyes. Odd all four of us with green eyes. What are the odds? It was like reuniting an ancient tribe.

”Are you in the Army? Are you on our side?”

He asked. He looked very afraid.

”Yes, put your hands down, kid. Are you alone?”

He walked up to me.

”I just have my dog. I haven’t seen anyone for days. I’ve been living in the convenience store. Where are the other Army people?”

Asked the boy.

”I haven’t seen any. What’s your story, kid? Do you have people? Did you see anything odd?”

”My name is Michael. Everyone is gone. I’ve been here for days. I haven’t seen people, cars, planes, bodies… nothing.”

He called his dog ‘Boo’ a chocolate lab. What a silly dog name, I thought. A dog should have a macho name like Spike or Fido.

We walked into the service station. Standing on the street too long could allow us to be observed.

“This is Michael and Boo. They are friends.”

”Hi.” Said Andrea giving Michael a hug.

Bethany gave the dog a big hug. A little bit of normalcy for her, I supposed.

Michale and Bethany started chatting. This was good. They had peers now to make sense of things.

Andrea pulled me aside as the teenagers talked and pet the dog.

”My husband was nothing like you. He was very good looking, wealthy, successful, stylish, but a complete jerk. We got divorced when she was little. It’s nice to have someone watching out for us.”

Andrea said to me. I thought about the back-handed compliment. Despite our grave situation, she still had time to prove that because she was attractive that she held superior cards.

I was suddenly annoyed with Andrea, I was her lifeline and she seemed obsessed with petty games. I only ever had eyes for my long lost beloved Abagail and I chafed at attempts at manipulation by any other.

”I can leave you both here if you prefer that I not join you. I have other fish to fry, Andrea.”

I said quietly. But Bethany had observed the entire interaction.

”Mom why are you being a wench? Why did you have to insult him? You do this to everyone.”

Snapped Bethany.

“We need your help. I apologize for my mother being ignorant. Please don’t leave us alone.”

Bethany said, gripping my left hand and staring down her mother.

”I’m sorry.” Said Andrea insincerely. “I just didn’t want you to get any ideas.”

I rolled my eyes.

“Wow, when did I give that impression, lady? Hey if my help is not appreciated, I wish you both the very best of luck. What I should be doing is locating other military personnel to assemble for national defense. So have fun, Andrea, peace out, I’m leaving.”

I said, abruptly walking out the door.

”Mom!” Bethany screamed, grabbing my arm.

”I’m sorry we really need your help. I apologize. Please help us. We’re all alone.”

Said Andrea.

Michael looked concerned. He looked at Bethany and back at me.

“Please help us, Sir, Colonel? I can see your rank. I know it from gaming. You’re all we have. I don’t know what to do. I’m afraid I’ll die alone out here.”

Said Michael. He seemed like a good kid.

”OK. Just remember that I’m here to help. I’m not your enemy. Time is our enemy. Let’s get moving.”

We sat on the plastic chairs in the service station.

“Michael, do you drive?”

I asked.

”I have a learner’s permit.”

He Said.

”How well do you know your neighborhood?”

“I know every inch of it. I grew up here.”

He mentioned. He lit up now that he was being engaged in our plan.

“Michael, can you and Boo go and bring back their SUV? It’s in the pull off by where the old access road ends at the creek on the far side across from a post office.”

I inquired.

”I know exactly where it is. I’ll take my bicycle there. I’ll be back in 30 minutes.”

We had to trust him. He seemed  like an honest kid and while he was genuinely frightened he seemed sincerely glad that he had found us.

He went and grabbed his bike and pedaled away with the dog running alongside him.

”OK, let’s forage for supplies. Water bottles by the gallon, medicine, medical supplies, tents, tools, food, dog food, antifreeze, windshield fluid, plastic bags to keep things dry, a hose for siphoning, bleach to purify water, lighters, lanterns, camping stoves, pots and pans you know not too much, but enough. Go together. Scream if you need help.”

I instructed.

They nodded and went off store to store. I went in my own to find supplies.

The girls came back in about 30 minutes, proud of their foraging skills.

”Nice job, ladies, good stuff.”

”Were good at shopping.” Said Bethany. She seemed like a girl who needed a dad. She reminded me of my daughters.

Then the idea hit me. Why not get another vehicle? We checked vehicles for keys. A van was parked outside the general store. It was the only vehicle with both keys and a full tank of gas.

Michael was back in about 30 minutes. We shared the two-vehicle plan. The women would ride together and follow us. Michael would drive first and we would head for Pennsylvania if we could find a bridge.

We discussed protocols for contact with other people and how to get water and fuel how to go slow to avoid accidents.

Another key to survival is to never split up unless absolutely necessary. Without communication, finding each other again is near impossible. It is possible if you declare a meeting point a date and a time and contingency dates and times. Everyone has a sign, so you know they were there.

Andrea picked the upper case ‘A’. Bethany picked an uppercase ‘B’. Michael picked an ‘M’. I picked a P so it wouldn’t be confused with an upside-down M.

We packed the vehicles and we were ready.

Mission 2: Head East, Link up With Andrea’s Dad

It was 3:00 PM, we had at least six hours of sunlight. And we were off.

We lucked out. The main Bridge to Ohio was intact but littered with abandoned vehicles and deserted big rigs. One of them was a gasoline truck, so I started it up and I topped off the vehicles.

We crossed into Ohio and we stayed on the river road all the way to the Pennsylvania line. We saw no people, but lots of abandoned dogs.

We stopped at a little remote garden store so everyone could use the bathroom. We looted the cooler of bottled drinks and we found fresh apples and pears. I grabbed a shovel and some small garden spades.

The situation was insane. In reality I had no idea what i was doing. But I always believed that there are no bad decisions if well-reasoned, only bad results. In other words, as long as your decision is based on good instinct and solid reasoning and not obviously  stupid or high-risk, then it’s up to the fates to decide.

”What are we going to do if we get there Colonel?”

Asked Michael.

”You have a family, friends somewhere, but staying alone was not an option for you. The girls, they have a family, friends.  I have no agenda other than making sure you three are safe and eventually finding other military people to see if I can be of assistance.”

I was thinking about all of the little things that people do for us in a functioning society that were not happening now. I remember walking an airfield with a group of USAF airmen and officers. We were picking up stones and debris. What happens where you have debris? How does a plane land safely. After only four days, despite being dry, their were rocks, branches, small car parts, rocks. We had to drive maybe 30 mph to be safe.

I realized that we could not stop for gas. If we got lucky again, we could find an abandoned gas truck. Siphoning was always risky. We even had to think about windshield wiper fluid.

How would we wash clothes? What happens when they wore out? I had three uniforms but that was it. I would never take the uniform off again if I had the choice.

My goal was to get off the Interstate and just travel the Old National Highways. We took the risk of bridges being out. We could cross rivers by stealing boats but obviously if we did we would need to commandeer new vehicles. People get comfortable in vehicles and getting a new one is a chore.

We saw no planes in the sky, even when we drive past the airport. I had a notion to stop at the Army PX and Commissary.

The grounds of the airfield, Reserve Center and PX were also abandoned. I swapped out the van for a military van. I also found a tanker and several gas cans we filled with regular gas.

I looted the PX for tools, knives, flashlights, compasses, tents, camping supplies, bolt cutters and more uniforms, boots and the like. We grabbed water, canned food, dried food as much as we could carry. Then we were off again.

Around 7:00PM we were on the Old National Highway. I found a remote Office park. It was also abandoned. I looked for a building with an internal parking lot where the vehicles would not be seen. We parked the vehicles and we walked up to an internal conference room that we could stage out of. We shut any blinds so our flashlights would not be visible in the event of unwanted visitors.

They had a gym, and bizarrely enough Running water at least for a while. We walked all around the floor to check for any risks or any forageable supplies. I grabbed pens, pencils, markers notebooks, tape and a few other items.

”Listen folks, once nightfall comes we need to stay on this floor. No one should be alone on another floor. We don’t know if any people are around or not. I’m going to work out if anyone wants to join me.”

I set up two electric lanterns in the gym so we could work out. Andrea and Bethany used the stationary bikes and the gazelles. Michales and I used the machines and dumbbells.